Hello Readers!!
Men!!!!!! The leader of the house hold, The protector of his wife and children, The Provider or however you wanna describe us in your own words. As a man living in this day and age, you have to be very careful, what I mean is you have to have the mental stability, loyalty, love and respect for yourself and your mate to earn the title of being called a "Good Man", for its been tainted and mocked for so long, that its almost become a myth...... so now there are a lot of trials and tests a man has to go through before even being considered a good man.
During the years men have been called, Dogs, Man Whores, Dirt, Cheaters, etc. Some people may say there are more bad men than there are good men in the world today, and they may just be right in saying that, most Marriages are led to Divorce because of lack of interest by the man or lack of loyalty, (sad to say but true), there are few long term married couples that make it more than 20years......... eh maybe 10 years .......... ok fine 5 years, geez. I think the one of the main problems a man could face is .......
Temptation
In my opinion, every single man in the world has at least once looked at another woman other than their girl friend or wife, sometimes an innocent look in her direction could lead to nothing at all, and in other cases a man could be looking at the woman with the intent to attract her, knowing that he has a spouse, this is the temptation that a man has to remove from himself to have a successful relationship. In other cases where the man is not looking, a woman could be making a pass at him, and this is where he has to be strong enough to turn down any flirtatious gestures that the woman could have in mind. Once a man has failed to acquire the strength to reject temptation then bye bye relationship.
Well guys I hope my little advice and words of wisdom has educated you in trying to become a "good man" and please don't judge me, because it pretty much sounds like I'm out to bash men, I'm just merely stating the facts, but dont worry I have done my home work for women who cheat and lie, so stay turned for a further blog on them! And remember just because a woman smiles at you doesn't means she interested.
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