Hello Readers!!
So! Seriously, are you a good person when it comes to relationships? Hmmmm thats something to really think about right? I mean, come on, no one is gonna admit it on their first date or meeting that he/she is not good in a relationship or have issues when it comes to relationships, instead, you will show your good side and make sure that person is very comfortable around you, in some cases this could be the true you, and you maybe be a natural good person and in other cases it could just be a big show, so you could win that person over in the beginning. So lets talk about some issues we all suffer from in relationships shall we.
JEALOUSY
A common emotion between men and women when it comes to relationships, whether you’re a man who stalks his wife / girlfriend when she goes to a girls night out lime, because he doesn't trust her, or you’re a woman who goes though her husband’s / boyfriend’s phone and sees a strange woman’s name and flips out. Ok well that’s a bit extreme lol, but it happens none the less. It all begins with the individual, if you’re a jealous person naturally, then you will need to work on yourself before you enter a relationship, or else it will just lead to the destruction of the couple, if you could learn to trust someone and in turn that person could trust you, then maybe it could lessen the cause for jealously.
POSSESSIVENESS
A little breathing space please!!!! You are in a relationship or you’re married yes! But it doesnt mean that every single moment of your day, you have to be connected to the other person like a siamese twin, there will be moments when you want to do your own thing, like a hobby (reading, gaming, gardening etc.) or you just want to be left alone for a few to gather thoughts of your own for whatever. Also you will have friends of your own, that you met before you met your mate, and you will continue to talk to your friends on a friendship level, making sure you respect the boundaries of your relationship. Respecting each other is always a huge part of any relationship, where your mate will be NO. 1 in most cases.
Well these are just a few words on the subject and I hope you comment on it, with your own views, because everyone is entitled to their own opinion. Due to internet issues i will leave you with these two topics in mind and will continue this subject on a later date, so thank you for reading my blog and supporting the cause! lol, and remember if you're in a jam and you need money, please call me ...... I may know of someone who can help you out :P
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